A 21 day transformative program to help you feel like you can cope with anything this fertility rollercoaster throws at you.
Some days infertility feels like the world is caving in on you, like every single person around you is falling pregnant and enjoying their happy lives together, while you suffer, alone, with the heartache of a single line on the pregnancy test, month after month.
Why can’t you do the one thing you were put on this earth to do?
Why has everyone around you decided that now is the ideal time to have a baby?
Will this next two week wait feel like two years?
How on earth will you ever survive this rock bottom moment in your life?
I know all these feelings, because this is exactly how I felt.
I remember bumping into an acquaintance at the supermarket, who was eight months pregnant. The same person, who a few years back, right when I was about to begin trying, said that children were completely out of the picture.
My chest tightened and my world crumbled as I blurted out a few words and stumbled back to the car, and then raced into the house, into the wardrobe (seemed like a good place at the time!) and sobbed on the floor as my husband watched, stunned.
Fast forward a few months and I was lying in the bed, barely able to walk and with seven kilograms of fluid around my abdomen after contracting OHSS. I felt like death, but it was worth it, because I had finally fallen pregnant…. until I was told it wasn’t viable and that I needed to induce a miscarriage. That was my limit.
How was it physically even possible for someone to endure this?
How was I going to face another day and stumble through more treatment?
Would I ever be happy again or was this empty, sad feeling here to haunt me for the rest of my life?
I was exhausted from the charade, from swatting away the (unintentionally) hurtful comments of friends and family, while trying to keep my cool at work.
But it was at that point, things started to turn around, and I realised that surviving this hot mess was possible, and I slowly dug myself out of the trenches, reading and absorbing everything I could to bring myself out of this funk.
Some things worked. Some things didn’t.
And then, I had another failed frozen double embryo transfer, but this time it was different.
I didn’t feel that soul-crushing low I’d felt every month before.
I didn’t feel that sense of loneliness and hopelessness that I had previously experienced.
Something had changed in me.
It wasn’t one or two things that I did, it was like an interconnected recipe of tools and resources I implemented that turned me into a different person. I had become someone who could take on the world, and confidently continue ploughing forward with our fertility plan to reach the finish line. I COMPLETELY changed who I was as a person.
Robyn’s calm, practical approach helped me to see things with more clarity then I ever have before. Each module really made me stop and think and I’ve come away with so many resources for a positive mindset. I feel armed, refreshed and ready to tackle this journey and whatever it sends my way.
Total value: $536.80
Your investment: $247.00 AUD
(You save: $289.80)
Total value: $1330.80
Your investment: $547.00 AUD
(You save: $783.80)
Doors close on 23 October and the course will begin on 30 October!
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Hi, I’m Robyn Birkin, the Fertility Warrior, a passionate advocate for the much-needed emotional support women need when struggling with infertility. I’ve made it my mission to ensure that women don’t suffer through infertility and trouble conceiving like I did.
Did you know that the stress of infertility has been shown to be the same as that of a cancer diagnosis? Yup, it’s true!
I’m the author of the Modern Day Missus blog, and the host of the Fertility Warriors Podcast, as well as two books, Screw Infertility and Fertility Warrior in the Kitchen. At the end of 2011, hubby and I went on a whirlwind round the world trip, and when we returned, decided that it was time to start a family. Cue sexy lingerie, and lots of getting frisky, and then…. nothing. Month after month, we suffered the incredible lows that trying to conceive brought with it, until we landed at a fertility clinic. A multitude of tests, the complete loss of all dignity, OHSS, IUI, IVF, ICSI and a miscarriage left me battered and bruised (literally! #deminjections), but determined that here had to be a better way. So, I set about researching and devouring as much as I could about how to survive trauma, I went on a soul recharging trip to the back of beyond in Lombok, I connected with some of the best online guru’s around, and pretty much reached into the depths of my being to pull myself out of my funk, and came out a badass warrior who literally felt like I could take on the world.
And today, I have two beautiful girls, Chloe and Olivia, as well as some of the most valuable life skills and mental habits, and I want the same for you.
Do I need to be doing IVF to join this course?
Nope. You can be anywhere in your fertility journey, you can be doing IVF, IUI, or still trying naturally, although I don’t recommend this for women who have only just started trying to conceive. My recommendation is that this is for women who have been trying for 6+ months with no luck.
What if I already have one child?
Secondary infertility sucks too. I know many women who coasted through conception for their first (and even second) child, only to struggle with their second (or third) and it hit. Hard. I think sometimes when we conceived another child easily in the past, we expect it will work again, and when you already have another child, there is less time to think about yourself. Good news – this course is perfect for both women who have no children,or women with one or more children.
How long will it take to complete the course?
The course includes six modules delivered over 21 days (2 per week). We are all busy! In order to help you receive the most benefit from this course, I’ve made sure I’m to the point, and each video is between 5 and 20 minutes long, and each activity is powerful, but won’t take you hours upon hours to complete. Note though: if you don’t watch the videos or do the exercises at all, you won’t get the results. You get that, right? No magic wands.
Do I need to complete the course within 21 days?
Nope. I’ve said 21 days because that is how long it takes to create a habit and change a habit, but it’s totally up to you if you’d like to take it slower. You’ll have lifetime access to the course.
What is each module about?
Will this course get me pregnant?
Sorry babe, this is not a get-pregnant course. Why? Well because I think we are all so individual with individual bodies and needs, and I believe that sometimes it takes a team of people (such as medical professionals!) to achieve a pregnancy. At least, it did for me.
While mind-body programs HAVE been shown to improve the IVF success rates by up to 50%, I don’t want to offer you false hope. What I do want to provide you with is a toolkit to help you survive the mental battering that the struggles of conceiving bring with it, and give you skills that can be used throughout your life in times of stress and challenge.
Help! I’ve spent all my money on IVF and now I’m a broke MOFO.
Ahhh yes, I remember those days fondly! I’ve never done the hard sums but I estimate our fertility journey cost us around $50,000. It’s a lot to swallow, isn’t it! Look, if you decide this isn’t for you, then no hard feelings, but I will say this: In comparison to an IUI or IVF cycle, this is chump change, and I truly believe that this course will be life changing, so you have to decide for yourself whether you’ll continue on the path you’re on now, or make the choice to empower yourself to discover the changes I made on my journey that changed my entire thinking (and life!).
I cannot tell you how many hours I’ve spent learning this stuff, and I’m so passionate about sharing it with you in the quickest and easiest to digest way to help you implement and make fast change. I’ve put a lot of work into designing these guides and recording these videos because I know how much trouble conceiving can suck.
But, if you sign up and have instant regret, no problem! I’ve got your back with a 100% money back guarantee. If you decide within 7 days of purchase that this course isn’t for you, then no questions asked, you can request a refund.
This course has a 7 day, no-questions-asked money back guarantee. If the course is not what you signed up for, or my Aussie accent on the videos is too much for you, then you can cancel your course membership within seven days of signing up.